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When I started writing the blog was unmarried and without commitment. I told one of my first entries and did so with male pride to show that I have managed to remain celibate, in the sense of freedom to act unilaterally on my feet. However, my situation has changed in three years. Not just "threw me" girlfriend, as they say, but now three months ago that I married.
never understood what people got married. It seemed very hard that you stop being alone and being accountable for each of your steps, have someone who absolutely gets your privacy, adding to the problems someone else's own, not to forget a lighted lamp or clothes on the floor because become independent when you've got your mother, is another, called the wife to fulfill the same role. All these, and many more, were the disadvantages which saw the last life. And for the record that my reasoning did not come from a bad family experience, because my parents, with their ups and downs of married life, are just a few months to celebrate the golden jubilee. But I did not see me in the role of my father, or enduring a wife as my sainted mother ... or a son like me. The marriage could be a somewhat outmoded institution of times when young men began to work and have money, they had already learned to be housewives, as were their mothers, and sexual attraction did the rest to repeat the scheme that twenty or twenty years before his parents had also copied. In these early twenty-first century, and they aim to repeat the outline of his male ancestors, much less they identify with their grandmothers.
Now, I married, I still do not understand, so that if someone asks me for advice, do not know that answer. I can say I am very passionate about my now wife and I do not regret at all of the steps taken. I love him dearly and Elena everything I do with it acquires another dimension.
I heard that after a certain age, as might be mine, people marry for selfish reasons, for feel supported. Of course, not my case. For that I would look for a pet, it also was not sure if I write mosque with friends on Facebook. I married because I simply want my wife is part of the rest of my life.
I do not know if my example is extrapolated, if all marry for the same reasons as me. If so, the truth is that no one had explained.
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